entitlement

You are not entitled. But you can be enabled.

You are not entitled that people need to have sex with you. But you can be enabled.

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No matter if you are 18, 25, 32, 45, 56 or over 60.

You are not entitled that people need to have sex with you. Paying a dating service does not guarantee that you instantly get sex dates, if any. If you think that people will flock to you, just because you demand it and think you are a god given essential for everyone around you - STOP. As you are not.

Now, if you are willing to accept that harsh truth, you can actually start to relax and get to the next level.

You are not entitled, but you can be enabled.

Being an "enabled" person means understanding who your audience is and how to present you in the most appealing way to your target group of men who WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.

Do your research where to find guys that are into you. It might mean you have to travel to better populated areas. It will mean to learn about marketing and presenting yourself correctly. You do not need to change your appearance at all "to get more contacts". You need to start being and enabler - someone who offers himself to the right crowd, that will eat you up and applaud you for being yourself.

This is what cumplaybook.com is all about.

By the way this powerful shift thinking also means: You do not need to answer anyone and do not own anyone any explanations, just block guys who do not match your vibe and move on.